The Tyranny of Excitement: Sexual Addiction and Deadly Masochism

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Abstract

In the panorama of contemporary sexual life, the search for lubricity, stimulating substances, and perpetuation of hedonistic experiences, in many cases, is not limited to the scope of a simple exercise of pleasure. It often results in rampant and compulsive sexuality. The aim of this article, dedicated to the psychoanalytic study of sexual addiction, is to examine the paradoxical aspects of preservation and destruction implicated in the occurrence of this psychopathological condition. From the metapsychological examination of the concepts of life-preserving masochism and deadly masochism (B. Rosenberg) and the presentation of three clinical vignettes, a double problem is evaluated: if, from one perspective, sexual addiction can be understood as a defensive strategy in the face of adverse psychic situations, on the other hand, blind adherence to one’s impulses would lead the sex-addict to a masochistic experience of a lethal nature, articulated to a morbid prolongation of sexual stimulation.

Keywords

Sexual addiction, Deadly masochism, Excitement, Psychoanalysis

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Author Biographies

Ney Klier, Pontifícia Universidade Católica do Rio de Janeiro

Psicanalista; pós-doutorado no Programa de Pós-Graduação em Psicologia Clínica do Departamento de Psicologia da Pontifícia Universidade Católica do Rio de Janeiro (PUC-Rio). Doutor em Teoria Psicanalítica pela Universidade Federal do Rio de Janei­ro (UFRJ). Rio de Janeiro/RJ, Brasil.

Monah Winograd, Pontifícia Universidade Católica do Rio de Janeiro

Psicanalista; professora associada do Programa de Pós-Graduação em Psicologia Clí­nica do Departamento de Psicologia da Pontifícia Universidade Católica do Rio de Janeiro (PUC-Rio); coordenadora do Laboratório de Pesquisas Avançadas em Psicaná­lise e Subjetividade (LAPSU). Doutora em Teoria Psicanalítica pela Universidade Fe­deral do Rio de Janeiro (UFRJ). Rio de Janeiro/RJ, Brasil.

Published

2025-08-29

How to Cite

Klier, N., & Winograd, M. (2025). The Tyranny of Excitement: Sexual Addiction and Deadly Masochism. Quaderns De Psicologia, 27(2), e2163. https://doi.org/10.5565/rev/qpsicologia.2163

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